Indeed, know the whole story. There are two sides of the same coin.But more importantly, just take responsibility for your actions because what you guys did is NOTEVEN comparable to me trying to cope up with a shitty relationship by trusting the people I thought could be trusted. https://twitter.com/aaronlising/status/1277986093690875904
For context: Those screenshots were taken from our conversation about me venting my frustrations about my relationship with Isaiah himself. You can clearly see that I was not satisfied with whatever we did because our relationship favored him more.
Besides, I just shared my experiences to whoever I deemed as my closest friends, which formerly included you.
Saka, WALA AKONG KINALAT sa ibang GC na ganito-ganyan nor did I objectify him like you guys did to me. Sorry for the obscenity pero do you think na ipagsisigawan ko na lang na maliit yung t*te ng ex ko sa lahat ng mga tao?
I told you stuff because I trusted you. Kung may kumalat man, hindi na galing sa'kin yun...
Saka makikita naman sa convo, na you were fine na pag-usapan yun. If you felt uncomfortable or sa tingin mo mali yun, you should have spoken up, right? Alam nating parehas na open tayo sa conversations na ganyan that's why it happened.
Saka genuine question lang ha, paano naka-apekto kay Isaiah yung ginawa kong pagsheshare ng experiences ko sa closest friends ko lang? Was he slutshamed?
Pinandirihan ba siya o iniwasan ng iba? Hindi ba siya nakakatulog nang maayos kasi araw-araw niya iniisip na nagkuwento ako na di ako masaya sa mga ginawa namin?
Apologize without making it about you because seriously, accountability ang hinihingi ko. Aanhin ko yung sorry niyo na parang di naman sincere at nilabas lang to defend yourselves?
Do you really think na ginawa ko yung thread bilang coping mechanism lang sa mga nangyari sa'kin? Hindi ko nga utang na loob 'to sa inyo pero I still did because if I didn't then maybe you guys would continue to be as fcked up as you are.
I did this to empower and hopefully, liberate women like me who continue to suffer at the hands of men like you. #AbanteBabae ba talaga ha? O para sa proteksyon niyo lang ulit?
... and Aaron; I trusted you that much even after the long break of what our friendship went through. You really are one of my og friends ever since my calsci days started, so it felt normal to share private things with you. Never thought that one day you’d turn on me too.
[but not gonna lie, it hurts me more that you made this thread and not anyone else... and honestly it also hurts me replying to you in this manner.]
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