i’m gonna be real honest i understand enby/ neurodivergent ppl not identifying with the most common prexisting genders(ie male female) but i really really don’t fucking understand all the kingender luckgender idk whatever types of genders??? why does Everything need a label?? 1/?

like kingender to me makes no sense and obviously i can’t speak for nb/nd people who do legitimately believe that their gender is an animal but like. bro what? not gonna shit on it bc that’s what you believe but i don’t get it... doesn’t that just fall under nonbinary? 2/?

and luckgender snailgender flowergender idk i’ve seen a bunch of these but why does there need to be a flag and a name and pronouns for personality traits? like “hey i think i’m a really lucky person” does not translate to it being your gender? 3/?

i’m not trying to put any of these down but someone please help me understand bc i’m trying to do research snd not be ignorant but i really don’t get it??? why are nb/nd people making personality traits into genders??? like imo there are people who fall under female and male 4/?

that don’t fully identity with all the traits but still consider themselves female or male? and just explain the particulars of what they identify as? i just don’t understand how y’all are making personality traits/ mental illnesses/ into genders?? 5/?

idk i feel like this is a bad take but i genuinely do not understand and i’m not Trying to be an asshole but what the hell is .. idk.. luckgender? and why are adhd lesbian and depressed bisexual genders??? wouldn’t that be hey i’m non-binary and im super lucky 6/?

and an adhd lesbian is a lesbian person with adhd and a depressed bisexual is a bisexual person with depression?? IDKK xenogenders and neurogenders confuse me bc i don’t understand the need to label everything. if you do i’m not gonna shit on u for it and maybe it’s just that 7/?

i’m not open-minded enough yet but i’m cis apparently adhd means i’m neurodivergent and living in a binary society has coded my first response as being potentially offensive to nb ppl.. like i said if ur nb and u do have a xenogender u identity w/ i’m not gonna shit on it and 8/?

you have every fucking right to feel how you do and it doesn’t hurt anyone that you do identify with a xeno/neurogender but i personally just don’t get it rn and i don’t know why it’s just not clicking!! and this is. very frustrating!! 9/?

i don’t understand it even after reading about it so if anyone is willing to educate me i am willing and ready to learn ;( also idk if this offended any nb oomfs and i’m sorry if it did !!

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