if you think pretty privilege doesn’t exist that is probably because you’re conventionally pretty and lack empathy
i have had so many men treat me better than other female peers just because they thought i was more attractive and i think even girls do this a lot it plays into how easily you get to make friends or how everyone invites you to things because you fit the right “look”
it is so easy for me to buy clothes online because most of the models have bodies like mine so i know what the clothes will look like on me and as for size i can just choose the smallest one and i know it will fit or at least i don’t have to worry about them not having my size
this doesn’t remove any insecurities you might have about yourself and there are some things about me that don’t fit conventional standards but it does not remove the privelege that i do get when people are just nicer to me or willing to make room for my mistakes
i have people look up to me and try and talk even though i am not that social and they do this while they ignore other girls who don’t fit their standards and call them rude or look down at their lack of social skills but i get to be shy in a cute manner
recognise the privelege that you have and do not shit on other people when they complain about it no one is saying that you aren’t capable all this means is that life might be a bit easier on you because of the way you look