معاذ الله ، اتق الله
This is NOT a Muslim marriage thread in that it has anything to do with Islam. This is a Sunnat Fir& #39;awn thread on marriage. Islam is free from the insecurity and misguidance below. This is the most lenient phrasing I can come up with. https://twitter.com/ahsanirfan1985/status/1276758947198885888">https://twitter.com/ahsanirfa...

Imagine a man proposed to your daughter with the INTENTION of manipulating her for the rest of her life. Abusing her and asserting the most toxic masculinity and cruel tactics to manipulate her into being some perverse ideal based on overwhelming insecurity.

This is not the way of a Muslim. Not the way of the Prophet peace be upon him. A woman will be thrown into hellfire for abusing a cat, what do you think the punishment is for abusing a woman?

ولقد کرمنا بني آدم

And We have certainly honored the children of Adam

Did it not occur to you that the Imams did not say this because maybe, just maybe, it shouldn& #39;t be said???? Delete this thread for the sake of Allah. I intended on addressing each point made but I think we can "nip this in the bud" by deleting the thing.

The Rasool peace be upon him
said:
"Fear Allah regarding women.
Verily, you have taken them as a trust from Allah, and intercourse has been made lawful by the word of Allah..."

This couldn& #39;t be further from any understanding of
الرجال قوامون على النساء
This comes from a place of insecurity, overcompensation, and what seems to be a need to assert dominance through the most despicable of ways.

Especially egregious is the comment made about making sure she feels you have options or whatever absolute
nonsense that was.
إن النفس لأمارة بالسوء
Indeed the soul is a persistent enjoiner of evil