queer terminology twitter discourse is always somehow both maximally annoying and irritating while also being over just completely inconsequential shit. it's just 19 year olds being gender cops online

I've been called a dyke a bunch and get the special kind of street harassment you get when people think you're a lesbian and I've known cis bi people and straight trans people who have been called f*ggot. no bigot stops to politely clarify your identity before yelling at you lol

Also not saying you can't have your own feelings or disagree with me on this stuff, it's very complicated and personal, but I wish there was more solidarity and empathy vs policing