I debated doing this but I just want women to stay safe and away from fucking creeps.
About 3 years ago, I matched with Shamil Khalin on tinder and ended up hanging out at a friends place. Totally normal the first impression so I decided to hang out with him again. (Cont)
About 3 years ago, I matched with Shamil Khalin on tinder and ended up hanging out at a friends place. Totally normal the first impression so I decided to hang out with him again. (Cont)
That was definitely a choice I regret. The second time we hung out, I don’t remember the beginning of the night perfectly but one of us his guy friends tagged along. We smoked and drove around at one point I remember and then he asked if I wanted to just go stay at his place
for a few hours to get some sleep because it was really late. His friend was with us at his house and was respectable the whole time, I don’t remember his name and I don’t think he had any idea what happened next. His friend fell asleep pretty soon after we got there
I had determined earlier that I wasn’t really interested in anything sexual or romantic with Shamil, I was just tryna hang out and get some rest. We laid on one couch while his friend was on the other and kind of cuddled but I didn’t want to and made it obvious w/ body language
He then proceeded to coerce me into giving him oral even though I was making it blatantly obvious that was not what I was there to do or interested in. No, I didn’t say that straight up but it’s easy to be manipulated in these kind of situations to do what the predator wants.
He was so aggressively directing my movements that I ended up vomiting on him, myself and the couch. He cleaned it up and acted like it was normal and I’m almost positive he asked if I wanted to continue (I might remember wrong, I’ve tried to forget) and I said no & went to sleep
When we woke, he drove me back to my friends house and asked if he could come in to sleep more and I desperately wanted to say no but he made me so uncomfortable that I said yes. We slept a couple more hours, me on the couch and him on a mattress on the floor
(Sorry this is a long story, I’m not good at shortening)
My friend later came and woke me up and my head was facing away from his direction. I thought he was still asleep but then my friend starts giving me a weird look but continues to talk like normal. THEN
My friend later came and woke me up and my head was facing away from his direction. I thought he was still asleep but then my friend starts giving me a weird look but continues to talk like normal. THEN
She tells me he’s sitting there masturbating, looking at us. Now, let me repeat, this was my SECOND time meeting him. I didn’t even know his last name honestly until making this thread. He didn’t know me or my friend. It was and never is okay to expose yourself in front of ANYONE