tw// fetishization, transphobia, nsfw/genital talk
thread on why "boypussy" and things like it are transphobic and fetishizes trans people:
thread on why "boypussy" and things like it are transphobic and fetishizes trans people:
BEFORE YOU QRT- ask yourself, are you trans? if you are not, dont speak over trans people on trans topics.
the term "boypussy" can refer to two different things: 1) the asshole of a dude (usually said by mlm) and 2) transmasculine peoples' genitals
using the term in the 1st way is complete erasure of transmascs. boys with this part DO exist, and rewriting us is transphobic.
using the term in the 1st way is complete erasure of transmascs. boys with this part DO exist, and rewriting us is transphobic.
using the term in the 2nd way takes more explanation.
firstly, it makes many (not all) transmascs very uncomfortable to refer to our genitals at ALL.
secondly, by using it you reduce us as people to our feminine parts. not only is this uncomfortable, but also reducing us to-
firstly, it makes many (not all) transmascs very uncomfortable to refer to our genitals at ALL.
secondly, by using it you reduce us as people to our feminine parts. not only is this uncomfortable, but also reducing us to-
our parts is exactly what fetishization is.
thirdly, it erases trans people that have already transitioned. testosterone and bottom surgery change the lower area, whether by a little or a lot. reducing ALL transmascs to boys with pussies is transphobic.
thirdly, it erases trans people that have already transitioned. testosterone and bottom surgery change the lower area, whether by a little or a lot. reducing ALL transmascs to boys with pussies is transphobic.
fourthly, many writers use "boypussy" as a replacement for trans people. only recognizing our existence as "boys with pussies" for your sexual gain and never actually acknowledging our existences as real trans people is blantant transphobia.
fifthly, its used as a joke and-
fifthly, its used as a joke and-
a way go demean people because "it can never happen" when it can. yet again, erasure of trans people. yet again, transphobic. we exist, we're not just jokes or ways to demean people. being trans isnt something to demean people over.
lastly, these men are still treated as cis.-
lastly, these men are still treated as cis.-
boys with pussies arent cis. we are trans. stop trying to erase that fact for your sexual gain and your jokes. most of the time the other aspects of trans people are erased.
this is also why joking about boys having clits in ANY sense is transphobic
tldr; stop being transphobic
this is also why joking about boys having clits in ANY sense is transphobic
tldr; stop being transphobic
this thread made me really uncomfortable to write, but someone had to write it because MANY cis people still use and write it. please dont ask me questions about it atm, try to find someone else.
can you write trans ppl? ofc
can you headcanon ppl as trans? no
i hope this helped
can you write trans ppl? ofc
can you headcanon ppl as trans? no
i hope this helped