Hi, incase y'all didn't know, "lesbians can't like men" "bi women aren't lesbians" and "protecting lesbians from male invaders into our spaces" have been and are TERF dogwhistles that have been used for decades.

You had no idea? Yeah wow, thats the point. Now listen to us when we tell you to stop saying it instead of calling us delusional and making shit up. You wouldn't say that to any other oppressed group that told you you were being racist or something would you?

Then again, this mission to preserve femininity and keep it undisturbed by this idea of "male" invaders is and has always been anti-black, so for all I know you might just tell someone that.