"cis men claiming to be lesbians make me feel unsafe in lesbian only spaces" literally is just terf rhetoric repackaged for NB/bihpan lesbian gatekeeping, if you teach minors to think this way you are promoting the shittiest kind of exclusion

when i was like 19-20(?) i had a transmed viewpoint and it was　some nonsensical logic of "harming 'REAL' trans people" that i only used because an older friend educated me about it. be a better mentor to young people now instead of letting them parrot exclusionist dogma

i also watched a younger friend of a friend sink into being ace exclusionist with the same arguments. it hurt then and this stuff hurts now. it harms and invalidates people like me