call me cringe but people who hate on neopronouns and xenogenders are so fucking sad. ESPECIALLY ones that are lgbt+ themselves. like damn u that insecure about ur own identity and ur own internalised lgbtphobia that you HAVE to hate on other people who are just doing what ++

makes them happy? get a fucking hobby. they aren't the oppressors. you're siding with cishet people who hate neopronouns as if they don't hate you for your identity too. i promise you life is so much easier when you just learn to accept people for what they are.

genuinely i do not get the mindset here?? like what are you gaining? the cishets aren't gonna be like "oh you bullied someone who uses xe pronouns so now i will give you rights." bro....

i'm just tired of having to explain to my own fucking people that identity is complicated for some of us and that not everything is going to fit into your ideal binary. someone else's identity does not trivialise your own.

i used to be this sad little "truscum" bitch until i realised that???? literally no one cares. theres no goal here. they aren't gonna change because you bully them. i have been so much happier since i realised that people are people and everyone has different experiences ++

and thats OKAY?? if you genuinely cannot understand people who identify a certain way, please consider that this confusion might come from some of your own internalised issues and a general lack of caring towards other people.

this does not excuse bi lesbians and shit like that though. if your identity erases other people's identities you're a piece of shit and you know it.

to any of my moots who use neopronouns or identify with xenogenders or whatever, i love you so much and please don't even think about changing yourself to fit into some scummy people's view of what you "should" be like.

i might keep ranting later but these are just like. some observances i've made as i've grown as a person.