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I am just exhausted. These people made me feel like shit for months. Ash antagonized me, Sound invalidated everything I ever said, Larkin did nothing but argue with me. And, as far as I’m aware, it was just because I disagreed with them. I honestly can’t just sit here and watch
These people act like they’re victims when I KNOW they’ve been going around saying shit about me because their other friends unfollowed me. The gatekeeping, gaslighting, all the talking-over and invaliating went on for SO LONG I didn’t even see it anymore until someone else
Pointed it out to me. These three never tried to have a conversation with me. The only one I talked to was Larkin, but then she left the chat and unfollowed and now blocked. They’re not interested in a conversation at all
They’re only interested in talking to people who agree with them, and because me and other don’t, they decided go block all of us then went private. That is incredibly transparent to me, and it’s bullshit behavior, especially from full adults
You can’t try and “work on yourself” or “better yourself” if you brush this shit under the carpet then ignore the people you hurt, no matter how many times you take a break from Twitter. Own up to your shit
If I’ve done anything wrong, if I ever upset you, talk to me (the way you said you’re open to people doing to you). Because from my side it looks like you’re just attacking me for no reason whatsover, and I can’t read minds. Speak up and I’ll apologize if I need to but all I know
Is that I’m writing all this with fucking heart palpitations because I’m half-anticipating a long ass DM putting the blame on me
OH and I just remembered this and since I’m done being quiet for civility’s sake, this was because of Ash, but also related to Larkin. Back then a few people asked what happened and who it was and I didn’t want to say, but I’m done with that https://twitter.com/pastelpinktv/status/1254820418084634624?s=21 https://twitter.com/pastelpinktv/status/1254820418084634624
Especially after a handful of people reached out to tell me their own experiences with this group. A lot of what they did was through DMs and I never brought it to the timeline, but I realized that that is how they keep doing this to people. So like Chey said, you’re not alone
If you’d like more details on what happened regarding Larkin, Ash and Sound, Chey has made a great thread. Listen, they’ve all blocked us,we’re not trying to reach them because that’s not relevant anymore, but we want people to know what they do, because it needs to be called out https://twitter.com/cheysket/status/1278019677088878598
So that it doesn’t happen again. People told me they’re scared of them, they get anxious talking to them, and overall it seems to be a general experience that they talk over people and invalidate everybody’s opinion. I don’t want to hear anything from them anymore, I just want
The fandom to be a safe space for everybody, where we can enjoy what we enjoy however we see fit, that we can tweet what we want in our own accounts without them ganging up on anybody because they disagree.
I know I myself considered leaving the fandom a few times because of them specifically, and I don’t want that to happen to anyone, much less for anyone to ACTUALLY leave.
So just take a moment to read this
So just take a moment to read this
