Let's talk about Cindy.
Not long after I first joined, I learned a bit about Cindy. Most of what I knew was that she said Antis were like Nazi citizens. That was probably late April/early May.

It has been around 2 months. She still calls Antis Nazis.
I can't remember any other time I interacted with her personally, but this was during a time I went through a "Anti Pro-C MAP" phase. I was more willing to listen to her arguments. I agreed with her on a few things.
I thought the stigma against MAPs was too harsh. I wanted to make it easier for them to get therapy. I thought Antis were too harsh to the No-MAPs.

But it wasn't long after this that started to fall to shit.
We all know what she did. "Kiss Your Local Pedo". I had a whole argument with her. She even apologized - to me - at the end of it. After that argument, though, she kept defending her use of it and only really apologized after the actual victim came in.
After this I kind of let go of that. I don't remember what happened long after that - I think I pretty much put it behind and began to listen to her arguments again.

That was, until she started the "Maybe your abuser wasn't a pedophile" bullshit.

I couldn't support her then.
And then she said this.

This was the first time I was completely done with her shit.

I thought she was an absolute cunt. I made my first call-out post on her.

But she said she poorly worded it and deleted it. And I stopped after she made that bullshit apology.
She began to defend me more. I was friends with Elle during this time and wanted to play the "Nicer Anti" card a little too much. I didn't want to act like a dick, so I kinda played along. I kept giving her chances. When I unfriended her, we kinda stopped interacting.
Then she started defending Elle. She kept calling all Antis Nazis. She said we were in the wrong for calling her out. And I was not exactly happy with her.
Then we get to her defending Nate. This is her biggest fuck-up. This is unforgivable. There is no moving on from this. There is no apology she can make.

She has defended CSEM consumption. And if you argue she didn't, that's bullshit. We all know damn good and well that's what
she did.

And now? I wouldn't mind if she disappeared off the face of the planet.

If you ever want good reason as to why I'm an Anti? Look at Cindy. She claims to be against abuse. She claims to be Anti-C. And yet she has excuses for CSEM consumption. She has excuses for
immortalizing someone's trauma. "It's not actually abuse - it's not harming a child!" basically.

She can defend herself all she wants. She can make bullshit apologies. But you've run out of chances Cindy.
All you do is make me want to be an even more extreme Anti. You have done the opposite of what you wanted to do.

You have reaffirmed to me that MAPs? Yeah, they don't give a shit about the safety of children. They aren't against abuse.
I know that isn't the case for all of them. But you are a major representative of No-MAPs. And you have only made it more difficult to trust them. You have only made your community look worse.

And in all honesty, you can go fuck yourself.

#FuckCindy #CindyIsOverParty
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