So, erm.
Here& #39;s a thing I& #39;ve been sitting on since tiddy smallification surgery and what got brought up again at 2 week post op visit.
My surgeon is pretty sure I& #39;m intersex.
I have some problematic feels about this.
Here& #39;s a thing I& #39;ve been sitting on since tiddy smallification surgery and what got brought up again at 2 week post op visit.
My surgeon is pretty sure I& #39;m intersex.
I have some problematic feels about this.
Some good feels too!
But the problematic bit is the extent to which it makes sense starts to edge into almost smugness that I might have more of a "medical reason" for trans than others.
It& #39;s just a very tiny thing, but I& #39;m super bothered it& #39;s there at all.
But the problematic bit is the extent to which it makes sense starts to edge into almost smugness that I might have more of a "medical reason" for trans than others.
It& #39;s just a very tiny thing, but I& #39;m super bothered it& #39;s there at all.
As an overly researchy kid I had the theory that I may be intersex long before I figured out what trans was.
Of course what I read then used the old H word about it.
Of course what I read then used the old H word about it.
What& #39;s helpful is babbling this out now is once I actually started pulling words out my head and confronting the problem feels, they& #39;re nowhere near as big and smug as they seemed when I was trying to ignore them lurking.
This thread did not go where I expected.
It seems that the worry about that problematic thought were much much larger than it actually was.
I was going to talk about avoiding chromosome testing until I purged that. But there doesn& #39;t seem to be much to purge at all.
It seems that the worry about that problematic thought were much much larger than it actually was.
I was going to talk about avoiding chromosome testing until I purged that. But there doesn& #39;t seem to be much to purge at all.