What gets me about Willow is that she absolutely knew this reckoning was coming. She had to have known since we soft-blocked her way back in September.

But she just carried on her merry way and attempted NO restitution, and once finally called out publicly, threw a pity party.
Anyone reading her “apologies” and taking them as a good step forward has had zero awareness of this past 10 months whatsoever. Nearly a full year (and actually a full year for some) of heartache watching our abuser continue traipsing along gaining more followers & victims.
I want Willow to be an example in the trans Twitch community, even after (if) meaningful accountability & rehabilitation has been accomplished.

You have no idea how bad it hurts to watch you abuser continue being successful while you wait silently to have a chance at opening up.
As I’ve been saying, this is a problem Twitch’s systems encourage strongly.

Please keep a critical and careful eye on those who climb the ladder on the platform. Do not put anyone on a pedestal, do not stan, do not assume any streamer you like is a Sweet Bean.
It’s fine to enjoy streamers and like them. But y’all really have to be a lot more careful about the cult dynamics inherently involved.

Can’t recommend the book When Religion Becomes Evil by Charles Kimball for a crash course on this. It’s very relevant even outside religion.
Charismatic public figures are inherently dangerous. They may not all have malicious intent, but the very fact that they can gather large masses of people who will support them unquestionably is extremely toxic, and it’s a trait abusers WILL take advantage of.
And you will not be able to tell the difference.

Even if you have a strong intuition about people, there is a very good chance you will second guess yourself in and out of trusting someone.

You’ve gotta be extremely careful around charismatic leaders for this reason.
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