Making a breakup thread so it's easier to mute if anyone needs to stop hearing recounting of emotional abuse

[ tw Sexual abuse] it's fucking mind numbingly awful to be awake until 4am because I had a flashback of him choking me during sex and THEN asking me if it was okay and then to wake up a friend going "hey guess what he's saying about you This time"

[Emotional abuse, self harm] Like really, you're gonna accuse me of microaggressions? Thats what you got? You refused to let me talk about being in a bad place, threatened self harm when people don't wanna talk to you, and all you got is...I didn't wanna talk about. Earrings.

The statement that he never got to talk about his trauma is empirically, provably false, but guess what asshole I'm not enough of a dick to prove it because that would involve screencapping his trauma dumps and unlike HIM I'm not going to out people's triggers