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Decisiveness is the default state
Indecisiveness is learned
The ‘google generation’ is so used to relying on external answers
Underdeveloped intuition is the result
So when it comes time to make decisions people freeze
Because they need external permission to proceed
Indecisiveness is learned
The ‘google generation’ is so used to relying on external answers
Underdeveloped intuition is the result
So when it comes time to make decisions people freeze
Because they need external permission to proceed
It appears everywhere
“What do you want to eat?”
“idk what do you want to eat”
“idk...what do you want?”
...for fk sake someone with a brain propose something
“What do you want to eat?” “idk what do you want to eat” “idk...what do you want?”...for fk sake someone with a brain propose something
“what time is good for you?” “you tell me what time is good for you” “I’m free from 1-8pm” “ok I’m free from 3-9pm”PROPOSE A TIME smh....
This gets horribly misinterpreted as being some forceful imposing asshole
No...
It means you have INTUITION
You propose something & with your ABILITY TO READ people
Get a gage of what the group wants but won’t say
No...
It means you have INTUITION
You propose something & with your ABILITY TO READ people
Get a gage of what the group wants but won’t say
...To be honest most people just want to be accepted & fit in
Even if you propose something in a asshole way
They’ll just go along with it happily because their number one objective is approval
Even if you propose something in a asshole way
They’ll just go along with it happily because their number one objective is approval
Nothing wrong with going with the flow
And it’s also ideal to be open to multiple options
But indecisiveness
Not communicating what you want to communicate
It’s no bueno for everyone involved
And it’s also ideal to be open to multiple options
But indecisiveness
Not communicating what you want to communicate
It’s no bueno for everyone involved
Putting your intentions out there is honest
Hiding your intentions and hoping people just ‘figure out’ and dig for what you want to say
is fake, timid, and shows lack of comfort/trust in the group
and lack of confidence
Hiding your intentions and hoping people just ‘figure out’ and dig for what you want to say
is fake, timid, and shows lack of comfort/trust in the group
and lack of confidence
It is NOT normal to be indecisive it is learned
Human hungry > human go eat
Wants more money > makes more money
Wants fit healthy life > makes fit healthy habits
When you are around indecisiveness people your subconscious picks it up as normal way of operation
Human hungry > human go eat
Wants more money > makes more money
Wants fit healthy life > makes fit healthy habits
When you are around indecisiveness people your subconscious picks it up as normal way of operation
Notice how you get a hunch
How much ‘info’ and external permission do you seek before making a decision
Ultimately none of it will ever just flat out tell you “make the decision”
Trust yourself
Develop your connection with your intuition, your inner voice
How much ‘info’ and external permission do you seek before making a decision
Ultimately none of it will ever just flat out tell you “make the decision”
Trust yourself
Develop your connection with your intuition, your inner voice
