Decisiveness is the default state
Indecisiveness is learned

The ‘google generation’ is so used to relying on external answers

Underdeveloped intuition is the result

So when it comes time to make decisions people freeze

Because they need external permission to proceed https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👇🏼" title="Rückhand Zeigefinger nach unten (mittelheller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Rückhand Zeigefinger nach unten (mittelheller Hautton)">
It appears everywhere

https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👦🏻" title="Junge (heller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Junge (heller Hautton)"> “What do you want to eat?”
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👦🏼" title="Junge (mittelheller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Junge (mittelheller Hautton)"> “idk what do you want to eat”
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👦🏻" title="Junge (heller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Junge (heller Hautton)"> “idk...what do you want?”

...for fk sake someone with a brain propose something https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😂" title="Gesicht mit Freudentränen" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit Freudentränen">
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👦🏻" title="Junge (heller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Junge (heller Hautton)"> “what time is good for you?”
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👦🏼" title="Junge (mittelheller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Junge (mittelheller Hautton)"> “you tell me what time is good for you”

https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👦🏻" title="Junge (heller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Junge (heller Hautton)"> “I’m free from 1-8pm”
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="👦🏼" title="Junge (mittelheller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Junge (mittelheller Hautton)"> “ok I’m free from 3-9pm”

PROPOSE A TIME smh....https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤦🏻‍♂️" title="Mann schlägt sich die Hand vors Gesicht (heller Hautton)" aria-label="Emoji: Mann schlägt sich die Hand vors Gesicht (heller Hautton)">
This gets horribly misinterpreted as being some forceful imposing asshole

No...

It means you have INTUITION

You propose something & with your ABILITY TO READ people

Get a gage of what the group wants but won’t say
...To be honest most people just want to be accepted & fit in

Even if you propose something in a asshole way

They’ll just go along with it happily because their number one objective is approval
Nothing wrong with going with the flow

And it’s also ideal to be open to multiple options

But indecisiveness
Not communicating what you want to communicate

It’s no bueno for everyone involved
Putting your intentions out there is honest

Hiding your intentions and hoping people just ‘figure out’ and dig for what you want to say

is fake, timid, and shows lack of comfort/trust in the group

and lack of confidence
It is NOT normal to be indecisive it is learned

Human hungry > human go eat

Wants more money > makes more money

Wants fit healthy life > makes fit healthy habits

When you are around indecisiveness people your subconscious picks it up as normal way of operation
Notice how you get a hunch

How much ‘info’ and external permission do you seek before making a decision

Ultimately none of it will ever just flat out tell you “make the decision”

Trust yourself
Develop your connection with your intuition, your inner voice
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