can i discuss why empaths without boundaries are low vibrational and attract that or is that too much? discussing why we attract the energy we attract takes so much self awareness and compassion. i actually don’t know if people are ready to discuss this

i constantly see “i’m an empath. i have high vibrations so i attract broken people.” and i just think thats not necessarily correct

i’m going to discuss it. don’t hate me. it may sting.

i used to get defensive when people would say we attract the vibrations we give bc i always was attracting “broken” people even though i was spiritual. i thought being a spiritual empath = high vibrations. no

being an “empath” or a spiritual person doesn’t mean having high vibrations. attracting & trying to fix “broken” ppl or energy leeches doesn’t mean having high vibes. it means we’re vibrating quite low. it’s not to play the blame game, it’s to be aware and make a simple step

high vibrations require boundaries and standards. people say high vibrations attract better and its true only bc the better attractions come from the boundaries and standards being implemented. empaths without boundaries are low vibrational

this means if these people are flocking to you, it’s up to you to take high vibrational actions: set standards. set boundaries. stick to them. don’t accept these people into your life. focus on self. don’t fix. don’t take shit. speak up. know what you want

we have to be self aware and recognize when we’re being low vibrational. if these energies are coming to you, it’s a projection of something going on within. that’s how i look at the world. then i see what i need to do to stop it. it’s a lot of breaking cycles