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If I bear this amount of trauma and disgust about being a happy wife regardless of what I choose to do, I’d rather not get married at all.
And that doesn’t mean I gotta be edgy and salty over household yang functional juga. https://twitter.com/serlywlndrs/status/1276838321289715712">https://twitter.com/serlywlnd...
And that doesn’t mean I gotta be edgy and salty over household yang functional juga. https://twitter.com/serlywlndrs/status/1276838321289715712">https://twitter.com/serlywlnd...
I’m sorry if the writer went through a heartbreaking situation, but she’s projecting the experience to other people who are entitled and happy about their own choice.
I hope none of us end up jadi aunty-aunty yang tiap ketemu temen yang lagi bahagia langsung pushing narrative yang bikin temennya jadi insecure. Regardless temennya end up terpengaruh atau enggak, to me it’s really annoying.
Although I might be too young to think about getting married, gue takut aja tiba-tiba udah ada di umur di mana orang pada umumnya mulai ditanyain udah punya calon apa engga.
That’s why, since I grow increasingly pessimistic dan gak mau dapet pressure, gue memberanikan diri buat nanya ke nyokap. Karena I think I can bear pressure dari orang lain, but one from my parents will have more weight buat gue.
And my mom said kewajiban utama gue di dunia ada tiga: berbuat baik, berkata baik, berpikir baik. Ini nge-quote Tri Kaya Parisudha by the way. Dan sisanya gak harus. Which means, kalau suatu saat I decide that marriage emang gak buat gue, ya, gapapa. Gak bakal dipaksa/dituntut.
Agak susah sih ngeberaniin diri nanya hal yang masih ‘jauh’ begitu, gara-gara tengsin. Tapi gue seneng dapet reassurance kalau di depan nanti gak bakal diteror nyokap. And she let me know kalau keputusan gue akhirnya yang ngejalanin ya gue, that’s why -
I gotta learn how to make life decisions. That includes ngerasain ketika pilihan gue ternyata kurang tepat. And for now, mikirin mau berangkat transfer atau belajar online aja udah bikin pusing 
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Writing this reminds me of @annisacorry. I might grow pessimistic for this particular matter but it’s nice to grow up with someone who shed me her optimism. We’ve arranged a hundred version of Corry’s future wedding and lunchbox menu for the past eight years https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤩" title="Vom Star geblendet" aria-label="Emoji: Vom Star geblendet">
But since there’s no husband for now, she cooks for me instead https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤤" title="Sabberndes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Sabberndes Gesicht"> Definitely got the best appetite. Eating with Corry is definitely an experience *chef’s kiss*
