29yo, G5P4, with 3 previous Caesarean scars (with history of uterine rupture during 2nd pregnancy), poor spacing.

And in this pregnancy have to do a Classical incision rather than a normal Lower Segment Incision on the uterus.
Husband refused for Bilateral Tubal Ligation 😔

You sayang tak kat wife you? Your wife 29 tahun baru kot..

You dah ade 5 children. The risk of a 2nd uterine rupture is very high. She could lose her uterus (hysterectomy), or worse.. Death.. 😔

Tapi takpe, jihad katanya 😔
Kewajipan agama katanya. Tapi kau lupa, agama kita meletakkan Maqasid Syariah paling atas. Nyawa.

Bukan kau yang merasa kan.. Bukan badan kau yang merana.

Requested only female doctors while we are short of female doctors.

Refusing vaccination..

Sedih.
Anak ni memang rezeki dari Allah.

Tapi anak juga adalah amanah dan tanggungjawab

You need to give a proper care and provide basic needs for your children.

That's YOUR OBLIGATION.

Please, if you really love your wife, give her the best care.
Islam memang mengharamkan ikat saluran peranakan. Kecuali jika ia boleh membawa mudharat dan mengancam nyawa ibu.

Which is this case, is really3 indicated.

But he refused. The wife have no say..

We all can just hope, she'll not come again next year with another pregnancy
Ya Allah.. Please protect her. She's still young. With so many children to take care for.

We, the medical staff can only counsel. Cannot force.

My heart crushed by this case.

Kesian..

Choose your love partner carefully and wisely everyone.
Sedih melihat situasi seperti ini. Sedih kerana sebab kejadian seperti ini, masyarakat menjadi 'takut' kepada agama, dan orang yang 'beragama'.

Perasan tak?

We don't say it out loud but it's there.
Jika kita membawa imej orang yang beragama, tolonglah jangan sampai menjadi fitnah kepada agama. Rujuk lah pada ahli. Jangan ikut kepala sendiri. Kita ada mufti.
Dan kepada suami ini, gunalah alasan 'agama' kamu. Kami staf kesihatan memang takda kuasa untuk memaksa pesakit.

Tapi ingat, jumpa depan Tuhan nanti menjawablah kamu dengan Dia erti 'jihad' itu.
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