A guy that has hit on me in the past answered a nonchalant joking question I asked on snapchat: how am I still single? He said it& #39;s because I& #39;m too picky, my standards are too high, and I& #39;m afraid of anyone exceeding my expectations.

At first I felt outrageously attacked and amused someone I didn& #39;t know could read me that well. Additionally, my gut reaction was to reject this perception of me and my attitude and to find a flaw in this observation. I came to the conclusion that he was right so

I responded with "lol well yes" followed by "but there& #39;s nothing wrong with high standards." You see, guys and gals, many moons ago this boy decided to add a video to his snapchat story of a drunken attractive girl at a bar and captioned it & #39;I need to get her a drink https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😍" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit herzförmigen Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit herzförmigen Augen">& #39;

Ahhhh yes, how ideal! How charming!!
No.. do not post shit like that and then pretend like you have the right to belittle my decision making on how I decide who deserves a chance with me. I told him my expectations are low and my standards are high, because I deserve the best

And sometimes you just KNOW when someone isn& #39;t worth giving a chance to.
I guess the point of this thread is: stay true to your worth and don& #39;t question what& #39;s meant for you and what isn& #39;t. As soon as you start believing you deserve the best, then it will find it& #39;s way to you

Plus, it will hopefully keep the assholes away https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😊" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit lächelnden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit lächelnden Augen">