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It& #39;s been 24 hours since Felicity ( @Sylvixie) has said anything about her accusations. I want to recap the everything & the conversation she & I had in DMs, especially her first "attempt" at addressing things & how dismissive and subsequently insincere she comes across as... 1/?
At 4pm yesterday, Felicity offered to talk privately in DMs. She then went on to talk about the DaVon situationâwhich is something SHE seems to care about most because it& #39;s what she& #39;s subtweeted me about multiple times recently, even outing my connection to him w/out my consent.
She said she was worried he, a sexual harasser, might have hurt me. However, if she thought that I was hurt by the situation, wouldn& #39;t she have had the thought NOT to out me to her many thousands of followers? It made me very uncomfortable and scared even. It was not on my terms.
She then wished me well and it seemed to me like it was the end of the conversation, like she only came to talk about what she cared about and not to address, you know, literally everything else. However, she then responded "I just wanted to start there," and the talk continued.
Felicity addressed @Mewnetics& #39; situation only by saying she doesn& #39;t remember it "at all." The other perpetrator in the callout has already apologized privately to Caroline and has been cleared. Felicity has said nothing publicly or privately about it other than this.
The community undoubtedly wants a response to this. It& #39;s a serious allegation about a recording Felicity played in a call of a minor in a sexual situation c. 2013/4. Here is the thread Caroline posted if you haven& #39;t seen it or need a refresher: https://twitter.com/Mewnetics/status/1276199247076040704?s=20">https://twitter.com/Mewnetics...
She then confronted the situation where I came to her, an outspoken voice for sexual assault/harassment victims, that I had been sexually assaulted after our breakup. Her response was to apathetically slap me on the back and say "Yup, it happens." I remember this vividly b/c ofâ
how much the situation hurt. She even apologized to me in person later & cried about it b/c she knew it was so wrong to respond that way. She was letting the fact that I slept with someone else (while I was single) hurt her personally. That& #39;s what she prioritized in that moment.
But Felicity always has a "in my mind" excuse as to why she says or does things. So that& #39;s her response to that. This honestly pissed me off, so my replies are a little heated at this point. She claims she& #39;s "owning up" to her actions but all I see is her explaining bullshit.
As for addressing things publicly, Felicity refused to multiple times. She felt as though the issues the other victims called her out for were caused in private and should be dealt with in private. She seemed to be picking and choosing how she would apologize.
As for me, she straight up refused my demand to be publicly cleared of any and all lies/embellishments made about me, our relationship, and my involvement in the DaVon situation as none of these things should have been made public. I am especially frustrated by what she& #39;s said
about DaVon & I. I& #39;ve addressed this before, but what hurt Felicity is that I was drunk on 6 shots of vodka and interacted with DaVon sexually over text, which she saw. This was all while we were broken up. She leaves out the details that I was drunk and that we weren& #39;t together.
She posted this embellished story about me in her private Discord of around 30 people and also posted in her public Discord that anyone who was friends with both of us would have to choose between us because she couldn& #39;t focus on streaming. I was furious to find this out.
Seeing her talking about me so negatively hurt a lot and honestly made me lose all respect for her as a person, especially since I had apologized & she& #39;d forgiven me. But she defended herself talking about DaVon and me publicly by claiming no one knows it& #39;s about me... Sure.
The conversation ends with me cutting things short because she pulled a classic Felicity move and started pointing fingers at me and pushing her own hurt above mine and others. She was hurt by my thread, so I am in the wrong, right? She hasn& #39;t changed since our relationship.
She goes back & forth between apologizing generally & denying guilt by trying to explain why she did the things she did. What she doesn& #39;t seem to understand is:
1. She can& #39;t choose how she wants to apologize. She& #39;s done wrong. She lost her choice. Do as the victims need to heal.
1. She can& #39;t choose how she wants to apologize. She& #39;s done wrong. She lost her choice. Do as the victims need to heal.
2. She started this first by subtweeting about me so often during the breakup & even after, even within the past few days. Just look at what she tweeted after our breakup to all her followers. I& #39;m sure they all don& #39;t think horribly of me, right? I& #39;m not attacking. I& #39;m defending.
3. She needs to apologize to ME publicly b/c she made our negative relationship drama public in the first place. I will accept nothing less.
4. She needs to apologize by calling herself out for every specific thing she did. Her audience needs to know, & she needs accountability.
4. She needs to apologize by calling herself out for every specific thing she did. Her audience needs to know, & she needs accountability.
5. She also needs to apologize to EVERY victim, not just her friend who made a twitlonger about sexual harassment involving her (see here: https://twitter.com/kevin_krust/status/1276230023880597508?s=20).">https://twitter.com/kevin_kru... This is the only accusation she has directly addressed publicly or privately.
6. A public general apology like what she& #39;s given so far isn& #39;t going to cut it. She can& #39;t just keep saying she& #39;ll do better and that she& #39;s sorry if she& #39;s denying her victims a direct address and apology for what she& #39;s done, even downright denying me a public apology.
That is all I want to say as of now. If I have more to say, I will add to this thread. In summation: I do not believe @Sylvixie has given enough of a response to be let off the hook yet. She comes across very insincere and face-saving. Prioritize your victims, not your reputation
