i been thinkin. i have a really hard time following orders from men, so marriage terrifies me. my husband might innocently ask me to iron his clothes and I’d start burning inside. yo im petrified of the possibility that I’ll start hating my husband bc he asked me to do stuff

my brothers stopped asking me to do stuff for them when I hit 16, since then they know better. but today my brother asked me to do something small it wasn’t even much but still I was burning inside. what’s wrong with me

am i a misandrist
or have i just never loved a guy enough to want to do these things for him. tbh im very generous, I’ll buy you gifts on top of gifts and I’ll pay attention to what you like and make effort to do that. But the second you ask me to cater to you, I start burning

this thread will self destruct after i realise I’ve over shared
