Gonna stop you right there

Aces& aros don’t own the split attraction model. While we tend to use it most it isn’t our place to police who else wants to use it. https://twitter.com/madohomurat/status/1276562371377532928

There are a lot of things about this thread I don’t feel I can comment on because I’m not a lesbian, but I do know a lot of bi/pan history is recent. They’re building their history. A lot of those terms are borrowed because the history is still building.

Aces/aros tend to get policed a lot and told what we are and aren’t allowed to use and I don’t think it’s okay to do that to other orientations either. The split attraction model is for anyone who wants to use it and I’ll stand by that.

If any lesbians, bi, or pan women want to comment on the other stuff here, that’s fine. But I don’t support telling other groups “oh you can’t use this even if it helps you define your queer identity”.