Ableist articles about leaving someone chronically ill or not getting into a relationship with them in the first place due to chronic illness is not extremely harmful. It makes chronically ill people feel like “burdens” and discourages from dating. It makes it feel as if we’re

“burdens” and not worthy of love. It makes it sound like we don’t have anything to contribute in a relationship. That’s false. We still have love to give among so many other things. Being physically able to do something doesn’t determine our self worth.

Even if you are bed bound and can’t move, you’re still worthy of love and you still have love to give. Even if you need aid with the smallest of tasks, I promise you that someone out there will still love you. You’re worthy of love. You’re not a burden just because you

Have a body that can be more demanding. Your heart is what matters at the end of the day. You are much more loved by those around you than you realize. Don’t let those ableist articles keep you from looking for love or from even finding love for yourself.

Sincerely,

A disabled and chronically ill young female with an amazing relationship with her boyfriend