Personally, one of the reasons I get into relationships so infrequently is because I don& #39;t appreciate how scared people are about them. There& #39;s a very uncomfortable anxiety around finding a person & working out. So there& #39;s lots of tactic and I& #39;m not into being studied like that.

I don& #39;t like being poked into and being asked a million questions on a first date for someone to decide whether I fit their idea of a long-term partner. We all go through things and change, and we can have a good thing today and it& #39;s impractical in 90 days, and that& #39;s fine.

I don& #39;t know much, but what I do know is that I don& #39;t like the pressure of ho ratana. You can& #39;t learn a whole person on a date or over a few weeks. Things come up as you go along and you have the choice to still be about that person or not.

The person you& #39;ll be in 5 years is probably not even who you imagine you will be in 5 years. But who are you today? What makes sense today? Long-term relationships change so much because people change and the relationship adjusts if it can, I think. So why le panicka?