honestly those rolling with manti mindsets need to realize they’re projecting and are just done with bts. they find it tough leaving the fandom bc of cognitive dissonance- you want to be here for the social aspect but aren’t here for the boys
this also applies to content creators who are gaining attention bc of the boys but no longer are actually emotionally invested in them- just leave the fandom. it’s not hard
i’ve been in multiple fandoms for years and i have never seen people clinging to bts like ex army do. take a step back. some of y’all don’t even realize you’ve left the fandom but are in extreme denial- trust me, it’s better for you and those around you to just leave
it’s hard because you’ve created a successful social space on social media but ultimately you’ll be happier if you just fucking leave. stop dragging the boys when it’s ultimately about you not knowing how to remove yourself from this dumb bird app, my god
if you’re at the point you’re convinced that bts have no impact on big hit when they, the most recognized global group, renewed their contract, or if you’re a content creator that’s getting mad about personality traits you literally projected onto real humans, you need to go
i’m not one to talk about this much bc this is mostly just a soft joonie account but i’m literally sick of seeing ppl remaining in this fandom for social purposes
one of my favorite joon accounts from last year clearly was just here for clout and recently admitted they were “relieved” they could finally admit they hated mono and never liked hobi in the first place. can y’all just LEAVE
anyway i should probably pin this or something bc anyone feeling uneasy or defensive reading this needs to block me