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cw bullying, mental health
Another "Please tell your child they are autistic" thread.
My advice to every parent, as a person who was undiagnosed growing up, is to TELL THEM. They need to know why they are different.
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cw bullying, mental health
Another "Please tell your child they are autistic" thread.
My advice to every parent, as a person who was undiagnosed growing up, is to TELL THEM. They need to know why they are different.
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Puberty and being a teenager/managing school social expectations is tough for neurotypical people. It& #39;s REALLY tough if you& #39;re autistic!! And no matter what, you will probably get bullied for being autistic. 2/8
I was bullied at 13 years old, and went into a year-long depression, had compulsive thoughts, as well as passive suicidal thoughts, and was very very anxious. I thought I was a broken neurotypical. 3/8
No matter how supportive & loving a parent is (my mom was surprisingly supportive for not knowing I was autistic, truly), that is no replacement for knowing yourself that you are not a broken neurotypical because we need to know we& #39;re different! And it& #39;s actually for a reason 4/8
But if we don& #39;t have that information, if something goes wrong because we see things differently or act differently, we blame ourselves. I blamed myself WAY too much. My motto as a kid was "it& #39;s not my fault!" when most of the situations had nothing to do with me 5/8
- but I didn& #39;t understand that at the time, and no one explained it to me. I was a "smart, gifted, quirky" successful child. I still STRUGGLED so much in school. If I could& #39;ve been home-schooled ages 12-18 years old, it would& #39;ve saved me a lot of horribleness. 6/8
We need to know that other people are like us, that other people like us exist and live happy lives. That we have some sort of community. I felt so isolated and school and even at home because I knew I was different somehow and thought it must mean I was wrong, 7/8
