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what we DON& #39;T mean is
-that ex that was bad at sex
-that ex that cheated on you
-that one time you consented consistently but recently decided & #39;nah I don& #39;t like them, actually& #39;
-shaming people who owe you money
-that time you let a predatory roam but it isn& #39;t your fault
-that ex that was bad at sex
-that ex that cheated on you
-that one time you consented consistently but recently decided & #39;nah I don& #39;t like them, actually& #39;
-shaming people who owe you money
-that time you let a predatory roam but it isn& #39;t your fault
I want y& #39;all to realize if you& #39;re posting stories and items with an explicit endgoal to absolve yourself of blame OR because you just want to watch someone you& #39;ve had issues with squirm?
you& #39;re not ONLY an asshole, you& #39;re hurting the bigger movement.
you& #39;re not ONLY an asshole, you& #39;re hurting the bigger movement.
don& #39;t misunderstand: your pain is real, and a lot of these people suck. truly.
But lumping in that one time you thought you liked a person, but didn& #39;t, with people who are LITERALLY GUILTY OF R*PE is not it. you are doing more harm than good.
But lumping in that one time you thought you liked a person, but didn& #39;t, with people who are LITERALLY GUILTY OF R*PE is not it. you are doing more harm than good.
that said: posting these stories knowing that this will likely end their careers/placement because you& #39;re still sad and you want to fit in?
tbh? It& #39;s manipulative as fuck.
Don& #39;t do it.
tbh? It& #39;s manipulative as fuck.
Don& #39;t do it.
We already have an overwhelming number of problems that effectively immediately, we NEED to address in the industry.
Not to be a bitch, but aware that I am being one, your personal guilt about that one time you slept with someone and it was mediocre is NOT important.
Not to be a bitch, but aware that I am being one, your personal guilt about that one time you slept with someone and it was mediocre is NOT important.
Y& #39;all can go unpack that.
Don& #39;t conflate it with the myriad of people who have a stranglehold on the progress and advancement of marginalized people, please. Many of us are hurting and this hurts on top of it.
Don& #39;t conflate it with the myriad of people who have a stranglehold on the progress and advancement of marginalized people, please. Many of us are hurting and this hurts on top of it.
Also: there are people who are trying to compile master lists of abusers and predators. When you toss in your story in the same formats amongst the same climate---->
