i find it so hard to trust sudanese men because I’ve seen many belittle or talk shit about their women friends when they’re not present
always thinking that women’s actions or decisions are wrong or misguided and how as a man they would not do the same, questioning a woman’s intellect
most sudanese men live in a bubble of double standards and entitled opinions and suffer from severe hypocrisy
these men have self esteem and entitlement issues, literally always comparing themselves to others and projecting all of that and their bruised egos
treating women as crutches and feeling deserving of a shoulder to cry on, yet always being emotionally unavailable when you need them or just being emotionally immature to handle “deep” talks
they love when your resort to them, it inflates their masculinity and sense of self worth to see you as needing and to think of themselves as your savior. they give you enough room to think you have space but there’s always a glass ceiling
sudanese men have deep identity issues, fighting with who they want to be, who their community wants them to be, and who they think they should be. they‘re literally chaotic and will only confuse you