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A thread about traditional desi parents and their LOVE LANGUAGES
Fruit = love to a desi parent. Idc where you’re from
Giving them your first paycheque??? THEY WILL CRY (and most probably give it back bro just do it for the vine)
Feet/back/head massages.
They been working HARD to get you where you are.
They been working HARD to get you where you are.
Acknowledgment of their hardwork
Appreciation and gratitude!!!!! Even if they can’t express themselves
Appreciation and gratitude!!!!! Even if they can’t express themselves
Buy them flowers. Or a gift. Your mom’s gonna complain about “nooooo, you wasted money!!!!” But you know on that call back home she’ll be BRAGGING about it
Food. That’s all it takes. Especially in the rain. Drives em crazy.
Learn how to make pakoray it’s a must have easy way to pluck on their heart strings
Learn how to make pakoray it’s a must have easy way to pluck on their heart strings
Being PROUD of them and CONFIDENT instead of self conscious when they’re doing something ’desi’
Like bro that’s the person that raised you. It’s the LEAST you can do in front of strangers???
Like bro that’s the person that raised you. It’s the LEAST you can do in front of strangers???
Teach them something they’re not confident enough to ask about. But without being condescending and with ALLLLLLL the patience you can muster
Introduce them to your friends with pride. Involve them with your friends group.
Make sure your friends greet and respect them when they come and go man
Make sure your friends greet and respect them when they come and go man
Clean up for them or do their chores before they ask. Trust, desi parents and Acts of service go together like bees and honey
Ask their opinions, even when not needed.
Show respect to their relatives (even if you can’t stand em)
It reflects on them how you’re raised
Show respect to their relatives (even if you can’t stand em)
It reflects on them how you’re raised
