i second this. you& #39;re allowed to mess up!!!! youre going to hurt people it& #39;s just how life is. but the way you act when that person tells you that you hurt them is what makes you a good/bad person. if someone tells you that you hurt them, don& #39;t get defensive. learn & grow from it https://twitter.com/beanthebug/status/1275412863906086916">https://twitter.com/beanthebu...

make it your next goal. stopping the habit of whatever you were doing before. now that you know what you did hurt someone, you& #39;re aware of it. so stop doing it and work on making yourself a better person. you& #39;re allowed to mess up!!! but then grow!! learn and be better

another thing: if someone says "you hurt me by doing this" and your immediate response is "well you hurt me by doing this" or "i did that because this" you& #39;re doing it wrong

their actions don& #39;t excuse yours. after you apologize and recognize your actions and start working on

them, then have a conversation with them about what they& #39;ve done wrong too. communication and growth go two ways. it& #39;s healthy. just because you& #39;ve hurt someone doesn& #39;t mean you& #39;re a terrible person. but not doing anything about it isn& #39;t how things like this should be handled

also just because you& #39;ve hurt someone doesn& #39;t mean you can& #39;t still be friends/significant others. you& #39;re literally going to hurt each other. you& #39;re human. but you can work on it. you can get better. you can learn. you just have to communicate and be willing to put effort in