Hey Men,

If I've never spoken to you and you contact me - and likely plenty of other WiGs - to let me know that you think another man I've never met is a creep, I'm afraid you're the one coming across as a creep.

Got evidence that someone is a r*pist? Go to the police.

But if you're annoyed by some sexist 'banter' that you didn't have the balls to stand up to at the time, don't bring it to my door. It's all yours.

You want to be my ally? Stand up to sexism when it happens, otherwise you're part of the problem.

To be clear - my DMs are open to anyone who wants to talk about or is suffering any of the monstrous things that happen in our industry, but I don't want to read rumour and speculation from some dude about some words that may or may not have been said in 2019.