Please, I beg of y’all, heal yourselves before you bring kids into this world and before you start a family. Please
Don’t bring kids into this world without unlearning the harmful behaviors you’ve learned from your parents. This is a time prime for your introspection. Dive into yourself and know yourself as well as possible. We have to break these generational shackles
Ask your friends for accountability. Let them check you, tell you about yourself, help you grow. You can’t do it on your own man you need help
Don’t continue the cycle of unhealthy parenting. God forbid we create another generation of kids who feel alienated from their parents or who feel misunderstood and dismissed
Even if you don’t fully realize all the traits about your parents that negatively impact you and your relationships with others, work with what you do know (1/2)
Yelling can be traumatic. You need to to other people talk. Be empathetic. Let people express themselves how they’re comfortable. Be empathetic.
Give people space if they need it. Be empathetic

Treat other people well. Please. You don’t know how far your actions can go
It’s not going to happen overnight but don’t let up. Please.

I know no matter what I won’t let my kids go through the things I’ve had to.

Be the parent you would’ve needed, even if you didn’t have that parent. Be forward thinking. Please.
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