Christian men need to start accepting who they are & go for WHAT THEY ACTUALLY WANT when it comes to their preferences in women. If you’re a ‘top heavy’ guy, marry just that! A ‘rear admiral’? Go for a woman with a decent derrière. Don’t let ‘content over container’ pressure you.

You don’t want to be the guy that has the wife with the best character & then come on Twitter and be ‘liking’ photos of every woman that has the body you always secretly desired.

We can have it all.

Imagine the joy of being tempted & then remembering “I’ve got mine at home”? https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙃" title="Auf den Kopf gestelltes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Auf den Kopf gestelltes Gesicht">

So, if you haven’t found that combination, be patient, prayerful & watchful. If we can just be patient and stay true to ourselves as men, our paths will cross with our desires.

Marriage is a long time to ‘manage’.

Again, we can have it all: character and attraction.

Go win.

One more thing, don’t go and carry someone’s precious daughter that you knew in your heart was not your spec but had good character only for you to start maltreating her later when money comes or your spec ‘grees’ for you.

The thunder that will fire you is from Zeus himself.