I think at some point we've all been too pushy with people. Maybe once or twice. But here's the catch: after an instance or two, you realize something's not right and you start to get some sense of how to deal with people, you know?

People would most likely not make a huge deal out of an incident or two, by the way. Had it been limited to isolated incidents, I myself would have thought 'Well, he's made the mistake and learned'

And hey, I'm all for making mistakes and learning. It's the natural way we develop. So anyway, Mohanad called me a couple of days ago when all I knew about was a couple of cases. During the call he said 'Hey, I know I did wrong and I want to fix this'

Like I said, I only knew about one or two incidents and thought 'Okay, must have taken note of his bad behavior and this is where it ends.' As a matter of fact, I even displayed a genuine sense of ease at the fact that he was trying to become better.

And that is my way of doing things ALL the time. I never shut people out nor do I overly shun them when they make mistakes. I always adopt a strategy of 'Never too late to learn, and in a nice way.'

But my way of doing things is also listening to the other side, also all the time. I luckily did so today and listened to someone who was very directly involved in the story. Later on today I saw the immense amount of girls making clear and obvious claims.

Now look, I cannot and will not be the person who speaks for someone who's been done wrong. Truth is, I feel so bad writing this thread because I genuinely sense that I am in no place to say any of this.