I think at some point we& #39;ve all been too pushy with people. Maybe once or twice. But here& #39;s the catch: after an instance or two, you realize something& #39;s not right and you start to get some sense of how to deal with people, you know?
People would most likely not make a huge deal out of an incident or two, by the way. Had it been limited to isolated incidents, I myself would have thought & #39;Well, he& #39;s made the mistake and learned& #39;
And hey, I& #39;m all for making mistakes and learning. It& #39;s the natural way we develop. So anyway, Mohanad called me a couple of days ago when all I knew about was a couple of cases. During the call he said & #39;Hey, I know I did wrong and I want to fix this& #39;
Like I said, I only knew about one or two incidents and thought & #39;Okay, must have taken note of his bad behavior and this is where it ends.& #39; As a matter of fact, I even displayed a genuine sense of ease at the fact that he was trying to become better.
And that is my way of doing things ALL the time. I never shut people out nor do I overly shun them when they make mistakes. I always adopt a strategy of & #39;Never too late to learn, and in a nice way.& #39;
But my way of doing things is also listening to the other side, also all the time. I luckily did so today and listened to someone who was very directly involved in the story. Later on today I saw the immense amount of girls making clear and obvious claims.
Now look, I cannot and will not be the person who speaks for someone who& #39;s been done wrong. Truth is, I feel so bad writing this thread because I genuinely sense that I am in no place to say any of this.