For those who cat call, have you ever gotten anything out of it? If yes, pls tell me because what the fuck

I’m asking bc I was followed home from the grocery store by a man on a bike and had to call my boyfriend to meet me

Same block that I was followed by a man literally walking behind me touchin himself. A random girl stopped me as if we knew each other because I didn’t notice him and she wanted to warn me and walk with me

Another man followed me to my gate and waited for me outside and I foolishly turned my light on so he was able to see what apartment I was in from the street and I was terrified to be outside alone afterward

So with this being said, what joy do can you get from following and harassing women? Is it worth it?