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reasons why you should keep someone’s number saved & keep them around
(Even after y’all talk and find out you want different things)
*a thread*
(Even after y’all talk and find out you want different things)
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end of thread.
thanks for reading.
*clears throat*—
thanks for reading.
*clears throat*—
Let’s normalize moving the fuck on.
there are soooo many people in this damn world... stop changing your expectations and stop changing yourself to fit someone else’s.
This is why I stress letting each other know what you want from jump—a lot of shit could be avoided.
there are soooo many people in this damn world... stop changing your expectations and stop changing yourself to fit someone else’s.
This is why I stress letting each other know what you want from jump—a lot of shit could be avoided.
This is why I also stress knowing what you want and knowing what you have the capacity to offer BEFORE you start dating someone.
that way it’s no confusion, no beating around the bush, no games to be played.
that way it’s no confusion, no beating around the bush, no games to be played.
Someone can seem so damn perfect. Like...the missing piece to ya puzzle... but if they want something different than you, you gotta MOVE ON.
“Maybe they’ll change their mind/maybe I’ll change my mind”— Nope.
“But they’re everything I wanted”— google the world’s population.
“Maybe they’ll change their mind/maybe I’ll change my mind”— Nope.
“But they’re everything I wanted”— google the world’s population.
And 9x/10... after y’all come to that conclusion, those people are gonna circle back for whatever reason.
Hold yo ground.
Stop wasting yo time and stop wasting other’s time.
Hold yo ground.
Stop wasting yo time and stop wasting other’s time.
Okay, a few (very) short stories to tie into this concept.
Gather round, children.
Gather round, children.
I want/expect some1 to be a little bit more consistent than this guy.
He wants/expects to check in like once a week.
We couldn’t agree—
Number deleted.
Now look.
He wants/expects to check in like once a week.
We couldn’t agree—
Number deleted.
Now look.
There was a guy who was EVERYTHING I wanted at face value.
Then we found out he wants multiple sex partners but wants to “date” one person.
I want to date multiple people and have 1 sex partner.
We couldn’t agree.
I nipped it in the bud.
Then we found out he wants multiple sex partners but wants to “date” one person.
I want to date multiple people and have 1 sex partner.
We couldn’t agree.
I nipped it in the bud.
And now look.
Last one—
This guy had 1-2 traits I absolutely LOVED, but I ultimately hated everything else.
We STAYED at each others head.. constant clashing.
I nipped it in the bud. No “settling” remember?
And guess who popped back up after all this time
This guy had 1-2 traits I absolutely LOVED, but I ultimately hated everything else.
We STAYED at each others head.. constant clashing.
I nipped it in the bud. No “settling” remember?
And guess who popped back up after all this time
now listen, I’m not always on my game with deleting threads but I add that “who’s this” to remind mfs that our time has passed.
If we both came to a conclusion that it won’t work out/we aren’t compatible, why double back?
If we both came to a conclusion that it won’t work out/we aren’t compatible, why double back?
I like to keep myself “available” instead of settling because 1 day someone’s gonna come around and it won’t be any “settling” necessary.
We’ll want the same things, we’ll have the same expectations, and we’ll be ablr find common ground to be compatible.
get out mi way. Lol
We’ll want the same things, we’ll have the same expectations, and we’ll be ablr find common ground to be compatible.
get out mi way. Lol
And I want that energy reciprocated.
If I ain’t what you’re looking for... leave my ass alone.
You’re tying up my time/energy I could be giving to someone who adores me.
If I ain’t what you’re looking for... leave my ass alone.
You’re tying up my time/energy I could be giving to someone who adores me.
(: that’s it. That’s the thread. http://mamaztheguru.com
