I was sexually harassed by my private lesson teacher during my WAEC days.
I Usually go to her house for my classes then she will tell me to pull my trousers before studying.
Then during studies, she will start holding & playing with my D plus lots of shit.
She begged me.

1/cont
never to tell anyone.
Most atimes she will use my hands to play with her Pxxxx. She forced me to have sex with her couple of times but I refused.
I couldn't tell my parents or any of my friends because I was shy to talk about anything relating to sex.

2/cont..
This shit affect me for years. Even when I started having sex. Atimes I still have fragments of these events & will have bad mood swings for awhile.

During my NYSC, She came to buy some drugs in the pharmacy I was working.
She needed a private consultation...

3/cont...
So the other Pharmacists directed her to me because I was incharge of reproductive health.

I took her to the consultation room & she told me she had hemorrhage pile.
I recommended some Meds for her. Was still scared to tell her who I was because she couldn't recognize me

4/cont
After she bought the drugs, I had to sermon courage to bring her back to the consultation room.

I told her if she could recognize me, she said no. I repeated this about 5 times, still got same reply.

I called her name, where she used to work

5/cont..
& lots more.

She started getting worried.
Then I had to tell her my name. It took her few minutes to recall.

I told her what she did to me way back still hunt me mentally till date & I've been trying to get it off my head but it's can't.

6/cont..
Was about to call the security guard to hold her until we call the police. But started begging but wasn't moved.

My boss (a woman) knocked & opened.
Saw a consumer kneeling & begging me. The woman told her what happened & My boss told me to let go, that it's all in the past.

7/
I refused & told her, she must be arrested.
My boss kept her in the consultation room & begged me to let it go.

So whenever I say Sexual harassment has no Specific Gender, I'm talking from what I experienced.

You can't generalize all Men as Rapists when...

8/cont...
Men (the good ones) are also contributing/helping to fight against rape.

There are Women who rape Women & who rape Men even though we majority of Rapists are Men.

You shouldn't fight against Men as Rapists bcos a Man raped you, rather fight against Rapist because..

9/cont...
Because Rape is a criminal act.

#SayNoToRapists

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More than 95% of black people that were Killed or Brutally harrased by the Police are Men, but the fight is #AllBlackLivesMatter NOT All Black Men Lives Matter.

We should advocate for " Say No To Rape" not Men stop raping Us.

There are alot of Men that are also against Rape.
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