If you’re in a relationship/willing to enter one, please remember the following: (a thread)

1. Having toxic traits and bad habits is normal, talk to your partner about yours (and what bothers you in them) and try to figure things out -communication is the key-

2. PRIVACY! Everything happened-happens-about to happen must stay between you and your partner, sharing in this case is NOT caring. If you have any problems please talk to a consultant or someone that is SUPER close to you and trust their judgment.

3. Stand up for them, help them in their hard times, and don’t threaten them -pls don’t do that-

4. No fights / arguments are allowed around your kids (or your friends, other family members).

5. Stop solving your problems with your partner by being a child, by screaming, shouting, having someone to spy on them, violating their privacy or punishing them -it actually makes things worse-

6. MUTUAL RESPECT & UNDERSTANDING are the keys here, it’s not always about love.

I know it’s a cheesy topic to talk about, unfortunately I’ve seen a lot of people (on the Internet and in real life) love each other but don’t know how to pursue their relationship (or want to enter one idk).