TRIGGER WARNING

Are you contributing to rape culture?

1. Have you ever made a joke about rape or sexual assault? - (I.e. Someone raped my ear, now I have hearing aids)

2. Do you have sexist attitudes? - (I.e. look at the way she is dressed she is asking for it)

3. Have you ever sent someone multiple messages trying to “move to them” and even when they have ignored your messages you have continued to message them?

4. Have you ever insulted someone for refusing your advances? (I.e you are ugly anyways?)

5. Have you ever catcalled at a woman or yelled unsolicited things as she is walking past?

6. Do you refer to women as bitches, hoes, tings, sluts, slags, jezzys, thots etc?

7. Have you ever ‘ran a CRB’ on a woman to see how many sexual partners she has had?

8. Do you ask women for their “bodycounts” but spud your mates for having sex with as many women as they can?

9. Have you ever sent unsolicited nude videos or pictures?

10. Have you ever tried to convince someone to send you nude pictures or videos of themselves?

11. Have you shared nude videos and pictures that were sent to you in confidence with other people?

12. Have you ever filmed a sexual experience without consent?

13. Have you grabbed a woman’s bum without her consent?

14. Have you ever grabbed a woman’s breast without her consent?

15. Have you ever grabbed a woman to whine on you without asking her for permission?

16. Have you ever stared at women whilst their in the gym working out?

17. Have you ever flashed or exposed yourself?

18. Whilst having sex has someone said stop and you have continued?

19. Have you ever leaked a sex tape or nudes on social media?

20. Have you shared revenge porn via retweets?

21. Have you threatened someone for sexual gratification?

22. Have you lied that you want a relationship with someone or that you like them in order to have sex with them?

23. Have you tried to pursued someone into having sex with you?

24. Have you ever tried to take someone’s clothes off without their permission?

25. Have you ever tried to get someone drunk in order to have sex with them?

26. Have you ever waited outside the club to pick up drunk girls?

27. Have you ever taken someone home or to a hotel who was evidently drunk?

28. Have you ever invited someone for a business or work meeting with the intention to have sex with them?

29. Have you ever tried to pursued someone into having unprotected sex with you?

30. Have you ever taken off a condom whilst having sex with someone?

31. Have you ever tried to get someone to take drugs, “to relax” ? (Smoking weed counts aswell)

32. Have you ever drugged someone?

33. Have you ever tried to groom a minor with the intention of pursuing a relationship with them?

34. Have you ever misused a position of power for sexual gratification? I.e trying to get girls to have sex with you for opportunities

35. Have you ever had sex with someone despite them saying no?

36. Has your friend ever been accused of sexual assault and you refuse to believe the victim?

37. Have you tried to make excuses as to why someone would be raped?

38. Have you ever witnessed inappropriate sexual behaviour and not said or done anything?

39. Do you believe men can’t get raped?

40. Do you think an underage boy being molested by an adult is a “right of passage” to becoming a man?

41. Do you teach women that in order to not get raped they must be modest?

42. Do you believe you can’t rape someone if you are in a relationship with them?

43. Have you ever ‘ran a train’ on a girl?

44. Have you tried to lure someone to your house with the intention of having sex with them despite telling them “I just wanna chill”

45. Have you ever called a girl a hoe because she had sex with you?

46. Has a girl refused to have sex with you and you have responded with “just the tip”

47. Have you ever said “I don’t care about your age”

48. If someone says they have been sexually assaulted do you automatically think they are lying?

A lot of people who have been outed as sexual abusers have been guilty of several of the things on this list, do some soul searching and stop being dishonest by saying you haven’t been guilty of this behaviour. Enough is enough. Do better.

If you are a survivor of sexual violence and need someone to talk to here are some organisations that you can contact

https://twitter.com/_anicouture/status/1274837437164986369?s=21 https://twitter.com/_anicouture/status/1274837437164986369

Also - artists be careful of the environments and conditions you provide for models when shooting your music videos. Be mindful of how you treat women on set, forcing alcohol down their throats, and trying to have sex with models or groping them is sexual assault.