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I am bisexual.
So when I say the following, I mean it from the bottom of my bisexual heart: shut the fuck up and listen to bisexuals and lesbians saying that "bisexual lesbians" are creating numerous issues for both communities and entirely invalidate all of us at the same time.
So when I say the following, I mean it from the bottom of my bisexual heart: shut the fuck up and listen to bisexuals and lesbians saying that "bisexual lesbians" are creating numerous issues for both communities and entirely invalidate all of us at the same time.
Please.
If lesbians telling you every day how it affects them isn't enough for you, listen to bisexuals when we tell you how it affects us too. It shouldn't take so much to drill sense into your head but this shit has consequences that WE have to deal with, not y'all. Stop it.
If lesbians telling you every day how it affects them isn't enough for you, listen to bisexuals when we tell you how it affects us too. It shouldn't take so much to drill sense into your head but this shit has consequences that WE have to deal with, not y'all. Stop it.
You create so many problems for us. You erase our identities, tear apart what they mean just for a label that doesn't make any fucking sense, misinform so many people, put many of us in actual danger in ways you refuse to realize and you tear sapphics apart. Please. Fucking stop.
I'm fucking crying because of the plethora of bullshit struggles single handedly created or fueled by y'all doing this shit. This fucking sucks. I shouldn't have to be crying and begging y'all to stop this shit but for fucks sake. Please, PLEASE think about how this hurts people.
Frankly, you should probably be listening to a lesbian before me. This shit implies lesbians can like men, and a "misinformed" man will take advantage of that and suddenly, that woman is in more danger than before because you wanted a label with a new definition.
But don't get me wrong, y'all easily hurt bisexuals too. You keep trying to erase what bisexuality is and creating a history for it that doesn't exist. You make bisexuals look like shit by stealing a label we have no claim to and defeating the purpose of bisexuality.
We created the term bisexual so we wouldn't have to identify as lesbians. We ARE NOT the same. Lesbians don't like men. Lesbians can't be bisexuals. Bisexuals are already fucking invisible to people when we aren't being hyper-sexualized, so stop erasing what we have left.
I want to re-affirm: bisexuals do not agree with you on this. We have to deal with the repercussions brought to us by your bullshit, as do lesbians. Don't lump us with you, and don't demonize lesbians for being angry along side us. The simplest shit can cause such huge issues.
THIS BLEW UP SO LOOK THROUGH THIS THREAD AND SIGN SOME PETITIONS, IT WON'T TAKE LONG https://twitter.com/hotpinkwheein/status/1269560108423327744?s=19
Muting this because it wasn't an invitation to try and justify "bi/pan lesbians" to me and my notifications are everywhere.
Your ignorance is no fault or responsibility of mine, read the thread. A "bisexual lesbian" is someone who claims lesbians can like men and claims that bisexuals can steal the lesbian label and history.
Yes... you're picking the pieces up, now put them together. "Only a homophobe would think that lesbians can like men" is a great start.
