I was raped at the age of 18 by a stranger twice my size. He overpowered me. “Friends” asked me what I was wearing, was I drunk and if I lead him on.

This is why people don’t want to speak up. If you’re gonna victim blame or ask these questions, unfollow me now.

I was spiked at an event. I was asked if I had too much to drink and if I was sure I was spiked.
Once again, unreported cause if my own “friends” don’t believe me, why would anyone else?

This isn’t a sympathy or attention grab. The only thing I want brought to attention is the fact that this shit is so common and not taken seriously enough in both the community and real life. Look after each other and call shitty behaviour out.

I shouldn’t have to ask, “what if it was your daughter/sister/mother etc”. We should be asking why can’t people just be decent fucking human beings.