being cool with someone that did your friend completely wrong because they “did nothing to you personally”, is super weird to me. if you come for my friends you coming for me too. like it’s no serious beef but it also ain’t buddy buddy either, we just not cool
like if somebody punched my friend in the face for no reason i’m not gon be like “oh well they ain’t do nothing to me personally so we still cool”... like HUH??? its also the principle. like this person going around punching people for nothing.. why be cool with them??
y’all be too infatuated with being liked by everyone and “keeping it cool” with everyone. whole time they not even DESERVING of being cool with you babe
and if it’s a beef between two of your friends, be honest with whoever’s in the wrong. “that really wasn’t cool that you did this to so and so” it’s so simple. you can address things respectfully and also end relationships respectfully if need be. come onnn now

and since y’all wanna be so technical like y’all don’t know what i’m talking about, when i say “it’s not serious beef, but we not cool” that doesn’t mean i’m neutral
it means it’s not a fade on sight, ima just act like i don’t know you.
all depending on the situation

all depending on the situation
and none of this is to say i’m gonna fight my friends battles for them, but i’m FOR SURE gonna be by their side if a battle went down!
y’all don’t know how to be true friends, stop giving yourselves that title
