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Are bimbo and himbo basically the same thing?
Associating my sexuality with my intelligence...
I don& #39;t really have an issue with that.
But either one of them being called negative and having the net be positive? Kind of hurtful...
Associating my sexuality with my intelligence...
I don& #39;t really have an issue with that.
But either one of them being called negative and having the net be positive? Kind of hurtful...
Intelligent + ugly = still called me ugly
Dumb + hot = still called me dumb
Smart + hot = fuck yea, thank you for the compliment
Idk. Himbo gives me vibes of a backhand remark.
Like why is it the exactness of the two coexisting and not the positive alone you wish to point out.
Dumb + hot = still called me dumb
Smart + hot = fuck yea, thank you for the compliment
Idk. Himbo gives me vibes of a backhand remark.
Like why is it the exactness of the two coexisting and not the positive alone you wish to point out.
Jokingly I see how it lines up. But it grosses me out. Which reminds me, is it just a fetish term?
In that context. A fetish is a fetish and so long as no ones being harmed it can respected in my eyes.
If we can respect bimbo, we can respect himbo.
In that context. A fetish is a fetish and so long as no ones being harmed it can respected in my eyes.
If we can respect bimbo, we can respect himbo.
But I also think men getting called stupid on the daily as a collective sex has increased a lot in last few years.
Women have had their rights infringed upon in that context & for far longer so I think men could use a taste of their own medicine to step in their shoes.
Women have had their rights infringed upon in that context & for far longer so I think men could use a taste of their own medicine to step in their shoes.
What I mean is like, go to the 50s, a woman calls a man or men as a whole stupid, she& #39;s laughed at or (sadly, much) worse.
Fast forward to today. As a young man in 2020 I respect when a woman calls men stupid, and I hear her out as a Human Being.
Fast forward to today. As a young man in 2020 I respect when a woman calls men stupid, and I hear her out as a Human Being.
I could still think they& #39;re a fucking idiot.
Like when my postmates driver told me "All women are whores bro. All women are whores who would do anything for money."
I hear him, search for meaning, see it& #39;s more about expressing his feelings. And let go and move on.
Like when my postmates driver told me "All women are whores bro. All women are whores who would do anything for money."
I hear him, search for meaning, see it& #39;s more about expressing his feelings. And let go and move on.
The same is possible with Women, with anyone.
But it& #39;s when men fight back with strong indignancy that the issue arises.
To me, they are stating clear as day, I& #39;m looking through an archaic lens seeing your voice as a Woman& #39;s voice, before I see it as a human& #39;s voice...
But it& #39;s when men fight back with strong indignancy that the issue arises.
To me, they are stating clear as day, I& #39;m looking through an archaic lens seeing your voice as a Woman& #39;s voice, before I see it as a human& #39;s voice...
The human voice is always worth respecting. If we& #39;re all human and we understand our commonplace together, our beauties and flaws, and respect each other individually of them. We& #39;re free of the hatred and being consumed by our feelings.
It& #39;s subtle. And this doesn& #39;t explain sexism. That& #39;s not the goal. But I& #39;m trying to look at why I feel "so upset" when I see a tweet such as "men are cancelled for this..." or...
For example.
Why do I struggle with this?
My immediate reaction is "this is stupid." But why do I feel more??
Why do I feel compelled to respond and express my hurt.
Not for any content of the tweet but the the core principles being interellated.
Why do I struggle with this?
My immediate reaction is "this is stupid." But why do I feel more??
Why do I feel compelled to respond and express my hurt.
Not for any content of the tweet but the the core principles being interellated.
Sexual attraction and poltical standing have no place being interellated... true.
But it& #39;s clear if I read this tweet from a male. I& #39;d think it stupid in my head like the postmates driver. See it& #39;s humor to express a feeling I may not fully understand. And boom, done.
But it& #39;s clear if I read this tweet from a male. I& #39;d think it stupid in my head like the postmates driver. See it& #39;s humor to express a feeling I may not fully understand. And boom, done.
This is where my understanding drops off.
I& #39;m still trying to search my feelings and facts. But my leading theory is the lens theory.
I need to see this as a human& #39;s voice before a woman& #39;s voice.
Both men and women& #39;s voices, as human voices before all else.
I& #39;m still trying to search my feelings and facts. But my leading theory is the lens theory.
I need to see this as a human& #39;s voice before a woman& #39;s voice.
Both men and women& #39;s voices, as human voices before all else.
People are complex and evolving FAR out of gender roles so quickly relative to history. And that& #39;s AWESOME.
But it also means there& #39;s a lot of old cobwebs to burn out. With new ones constantly forming as we move forward in this evolution.
But it also means there& #39;s a lot of old cobwebs to burn out. With new ones constantly forming as we move forward in this evolution.
The cobwebs represent ignorance, and whatever contextual foundation the ignorance stands upon; upbringing, trauma/abuse, neglect, etc.
It is in my/the human journey to rise above it, seeking knowledge to eradice fear & building courage to love and respect all other human beings
It is in my/the human journey to rise above it, seeking knowledge to eradice fear & building courage to love and respect all other human beings
In the mean time, I really don& #39;t know what to "call myself." To simplify this thread.
But I think it all may be less about labels and more about conversations.
To express exactly where we are in our journey of searching and striving for divine love.
But I think it all may be less about labels and more about conversations.
To express exactly where we are in our journey of searching and striving for divine love.
Oh yea, at this point I kind of don& #39;t care about the word himbo anymore which is nice b/c it means talking out my feelings helped...
I have an idea of where the anger is coming from, and specifically why it rises above my calm and my respect for the person saying it and myself.
I have an idea of where the anger is coming from, and specifically why it rises above my calm and my respect for the person saying it and myself.
