do people on married at first sight know there are sex acts between kissing and PIV sex

purity culture has failed iris in such huge ways. when she told her mom she was surprised Keith was struggling with her virginity bc “most men would be so excited that it was this gift I was giving them.” meanwhile, every other man on the show said they were glad it wasn’t them

also season 9 had mid-season checkins & the experts full on let two of the women go back to a man that was emotionally abusing them. & no one called the men on being abusive. that’s irresponsible; what’s the point of having experts if they can’t call that shit out??

beth is selling “basic Caucasian sex” mugs and I’m upset... that shit is racist as hell & contributes to the hypersexualization and fetishization of Black and brown men, it wasn’t cute when she said it & it’s not cute now

~Jamie is abusive af~

I am literally watching certified relationship counselors ignore abuse & encourage women to remain in relationships in which they’re being gaslit & emotionally abused & I am so so angry. Jamie is textbook abuser.

The 9th season is an exercise in slowly watching Beth lose the spark in her eye as she’s broken down by an abusive man