Personal lessons from Abadala:

1. Prayer works.
2. Just because there's a midnight and 3am prayer hype from masses doesn't mean that's also your time to pray.
3. The visions you see are for you, not the timeline, unless instructed to share.
4. They'll teach you at their own pace

5. Candles are aesthetics meant to focus YOU, not to summon them. They hear you loud and clear even without amakhandlela.
6. Answers come in due time, not makthanda wena.
7. Awuzilawuli.
8. Sometimes you are called to carry the entire family, no negotiations.

9. To wherever you are truly called, you will be provided for.
10. Hardships and struggles build character and the spiritual stamina for the road ahead. They are not meant to last. They are for a season (...well depending on your response as well )