Me trying to ignore my mom and her friend miss gendering a trans guy EVEN after I told them his preferred pronouns.... also hearing her friend say “it idk what to call her”

He is in band with me and my mom goes “I bet the director calls her by *preferred name*, I mean he has to right? The whole school has to.” https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😐" title="Neutrales Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Neutrales Gesicht"> just the tone that she was saying this stuff in makes me soooooo uncomfortable

I hate that I can’t even educate my mom bc whenever me and my sis try, she always frames it as us being “sensitive” or she completely ignores whatever we say! Sorry for going on this tangent but I’m so sick of the people that surrounds me. At home, at school, or in the store.

I have to hear so much shit that makes me want to claw my eyes out.

Also let me add, yes my director DOES call him by his preferred pronouns and name NOT bc he has to but bc he’s a decent human that respects his students and is not transphobic https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😊" title="Lächelndes Gesicht mit lächelnden Augen" aria-label="Emoji: Lächelndes Gesicht mit lächelnden Augen">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😌" title="Erleichtertes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Erleichtertes Gesicht">okay end of thread