One of my married male colleagues used to ask me to “fuck” and ask for photos of myself every time I saw him.He did it to other women too& guys would walk by in the halls witnessing it.We can’t just say go fuck yourself to them like you would as a bar,these men are our colleagues

We work with them and count on them for our safety!I tried to report it but I was told “it’s career suicide”. I saw how they retaliated against other women like cowards and bullies!We can’t just walk away from sexual abuser,our lives & livelihoods depend on it!

So don’t ask us why we say “lol”! We say “lol” because we want to be safe at work. We don’t want them to spread false rumours about us like a fucking high school.We want to do our jobs and go home and not be sexually abused!Ask those PIGS why they abuse women and stop blaming US!