stop this idea that weightloss is inherently a positive thing

if you’re unhappy with your body and you take HEALTHY steps to lose weight then that’s great!!! but stop praising people for losing weight when you don’t know how or why they did it. I can’t articulate this properly bc I’m a bit getrek rn BUT U KNOW WHAT I MEAN MAN

like for example ne. I’ve struggled with body dysmorphia and eating disorders since I was 9 years old. my weight would fluctuate like crazy over the years and the one constant was that I’d get praised for losing weight whenever I did. gag is that I lost weight because

I was starving myself or sticking my finger down my throat after each meal. do you know how fkn harmful it is to be praised for your weightloss when that’s how you achieved it?? idk do you get what I’m saying

the moral of the story is keep your comments about people’s bodies to yourself