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DM Etiquette Tip: Please consider your request before sending it to someone who works for themselves or consults. Or anyone really. Iâve had some crazy requests lately and while I am happy to give you a 
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First - please understand that a consultants time IS literally their money. Hours I spend on hobbies take away from hours I can spend consulting some I have to balance my non-paid time along with struggling to have and maintain a work and family life balance.
Things I love to do like talks and podcasts come out of my work and family time equity account and I have to make up for that on the back end. While I love saying yes and wish I could do all the things... I just simply can not. Many consultants struggle with this balance.
Things I canât do... but have really been asked of me. Come up with your entire business strategy for your new Infosec consulting company and tell you how to run your business. The market research alone would be a gig that costs over $10k and thatâs not my specialty either.
Create all the content for the podcast you want me to guest on with you to promote your company. Iâm happy to contribute but please have a clear outline of the topic and questions you can give me in advavnce so I can prepare. âTips and Tricksâ isnât a topic. Own your content https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="đ" title="Erleichtertes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Erleichtertes Gesicht">
Things I wonât do.... these include stuff that encroaches on my personal time or doesnât contribute to the greater good. Stuff like taking pictures of all my hacker T-shirts and sending them to you arenât going to happen. Your asking for something that would take HOURS, for what?
I love supporting fellow consultants and friends who support me. Please donât take this as a crabby rant. But relationships go both ways and if you are only taking or only giving Thats not a good positive relationship - not the kind of relationship I have with my friends.
If you are looking for resources or have a quick question - PLEASE REACH OUT - looking to get involved? Attend a @defcon209 virtual meetup or join your local @defcongroups and start contributing what you can too. Iâm here to support friends. Be a good friend.
I owe a GREAT DEAL to friends here who have supported and lifted me up. I can tell whoâs genuine and whoâs trying to bagger it guilt me into doing stuff. Thatâs clingy and gross. If I donât respond donât send 20 messages begging me to or guilting me to say yes.
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